It is okay to ask to look through your boyfriend's messages if he's done nothing to spike your suspicions? I'm just curious... Would he be mad for not trusting him? Or think I'm some kinda crazy person who hovers? He knows I don't really trust him yet and we've only been dating 5 months, but it's killing me and keeping me distant because I'm not sure and I won't believe him if I ask and he says no cause that's just me and men can lie