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My boyfriend has days where he will be very mean and anything I say or do is not good enough for him so he gets ignorant and I'm already insecure about everything about myself , some of the things are very hurtful I am 3 months pregnant as well so I've been more sensitive than usual about it ! When we are good we are great and I cherish those days bc I hate the days like this where he has nothing to do with me and seems he could care less if I fell off the face of the earth right now :/ it's so hard to try and try to get along with someone and only get effort 20% of the time so I gave up when he acts this way I stay to myself which with the depression and other problems I have make it worse for me , I don't know what else to do .. It's just hard to leave knowing we can be great together and that I am pregnant with his child

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this is me and my relationship sometimes ! Minus the pregnancy. I love him too much to leave and I can't imagine life without him 🙁

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He can't treat you like that! Is he scared about the pregnancy? Acting out? Hope he would not ever hurt you especially with being pregnant! Have you talked to him why he gets like this?

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You can also be great on your own. Everyone gets scared of leaving pregnant.. i was terrified. I let things go until 6months pregnant and left because i felt so worthless. He was more emotionally abusive than physically but i was depressed. All it takes is to see your worth. That you deserve better and you find the courage to find happiness you deserve. What helps is you need to go well what is better for my child.. growing up in a nasty unhappy home where they learn that behavior is acceptable or grow up in a happy home even though a single parent home. He can see the baby just not live together. It's not that bad and when you find someone who treats you the way you deserve your child will be learning thats how people and relationships really should be... happy and full of love. Not sad and full of degrading crap. Make a choice for both you and your child. Not for him.

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I'm not pregnant, but God, one of my main fears is that my husband (who is absolutely dying for me to get pregnant) will somehow see me different or our relationship will get turned upside down because of a baby! It happened with my ex. We were together over 3 years & he became a totally different person after I had my son! & my husband wants a kid so badly I don't know if he's looking at the complications it brings. I have to face the fear someday tho

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Guessing you posted anonymous, I'd love you to write me... Sometimes I feel like I need someone to talk to about exact shit like this. The forum is great too, but I just don't want to post my stuff PUBLIC for everyone's comments.

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