How to spice things up

So my bf tell me he knows that I love him but in d bedroom he don't feel it much. Its not about not been satisfied after sex. He love long foreplay, kissing and he always do me oral. The thing is I don't like long foreplay, I so hate kissing and oral I can't more than like 5 minutes and because of that he said he don't feel my love.😢😢

I want him happy And to think and be with me only. And another factor is he is older and he has more experience, am 24 and he 46. Any tips of how to make him feel I love him, I know I have to work on what I mention but anything else to blow his mind? He is really nice and treats me well and I don't want to loose him😦😦. We going for check up so we can stop use condom and try for a baby☺☺. Any good advise is much appreciated.