To month old and just had a miscarriage 6 weeks after birth.

Manda

Hello ladies, I am new to this app and I'm looking for friends who are in the same situation that I am in.

My name is Amanda and I just gave birth to a baby girl on State Patrick's Day she stayed in the NICU for 4 and a half weeks. I had her at 37 weeks because of low fluid and she had an air bubble outside of her long and it took her little while to learn how to suck a bottle. I've fortunately I was not able to breastfeed. My husband and were both going through postpartum depression... we used a donor to conceive her because our first son 9 years ago was born with Down syndrome. So the first time we had sex after she was born, I conceived naturally to our surprise !!

The test got darker then lighter.. I went to the doctor and my HCG was 14 and I went back 48 hours later and it was 6. The doctor confirmed that I had a miscarriage. The doctor said that it was most probably because my uterus was still healing from the C-Section I had with her.

We were shot that after 10 years of trying naturally that he got me pregnant and we lost it.

We do want a 3rd. child...

If there is any ladies out there who would like to go on this journey with me. I would gladly except and appreciate support. I am a certified to Doula and I have a Sexual Wellness store. I am very informative on conception... after my son was born, all I did was learn and learn and learn about the human body and the reproductive system in males and females. Its very interesting and I'm full of information that I am willing to share.

I'm looking for to hearing from some of you ladies.

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Br

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I'm very sorry for your loss. & I am sorry I can not help. I just wanted to let you know that she is GOREGOUS! My heart melted when I seen her! Congratulations! Good luck! I wish for the best for you and your family! 😘😍😊

Ma

Manda • May 28, 2016
im so depressed. I don't know where to begin.... im going back to sleep. that all I can do ;(

Ma

Manda • May 28, 2016
thank you.

Br

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And this is my little girl Deja! She will be 9 on June 17th 😊 she's my little princess! ❤️

Br

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Oh, here's my 2 month old! 😊His name is August, but we call him either Auggie or Gus Gus for short ☺️ I love this little man so much

Br

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Oh I am so sorry for your loss! I'm in a similar situation, actually. My first child is a little girl who will be 9 in about 2 weeks, she has Septo Optic Dysplasia and is legally blind. I just had my second child, a boy this time, on March 18th! He was also 3 weeks early! And my hubby and I just decided about a week ago that we want to start trying for a 3rd, we don't want to wait and we know that after giving birth you are extremely fertile, so we are hoping to use that to our advantage, though we've never had an issue in the past. Our son we just had we conceived in our second month of ttc, and that was actually our first month of really trying and keeping track of my cycle. I would love to have someone to talk to about this though! I just got my first period after having my son in March on May 14th, so I don't know my cycle well enough to track it and know when I'm ovulating and such.. But we want to get pregnant again as soon as possible! Any advise? And if you ever need to talk about anything you can message me any time! I don't have experience with miscarriage, but we do have a lot in common! 😊 

Ma

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Im.so depressed and this is post partum depression as well... I made an appt with a private therapist.... Ughh... DH and I are on the outs. We don't communicate or even click anymore. I would be happier by myself. 16yrs now and we have grown apart.. it happens when you have been inseparable from the 11th grade. 35yr old now...people change... I'd rather separate now. That would give us both the Chance to find happiness. He says he is. But he's NOT..