Maybe some huge life changes, and I'm freaking out.

This is long but please bear with me!

So, my husband and I are facing the possibility of moving home to help take care of his sick mother.

I love my mother-in-law to death, and I do want to help her out. If I could have my way she would just move in with us but that's just not going to happen (she and my FIL have too many things going on to move). The thing is, I hate living in my hometown. Both my husband and I HATE it there.

I'm happy where I am and I've just gotten into university after years of working hard for it. I have a really great job that I love. More importantly, we've been TTC for the last year and a half... this would definitely put a wrench in the process. :(

What are we supposed to do? I'm freaking out. I am more than willing to help my husband, we are a team and I'm here to help him through tough times. He is also super stressed and I'm trying to be really positive for him. He knows my feelings but there's not much we can do if his mom needs us. This is just a huge sacrifice and ugh.... I feel so selfish but I know I'll be miserable if we move.

Has anyone else gone through this? How did you handle it? I could really use some words of advice or encouragement right now :(