Once again more drama I just can't escape from. So my boyfriend and I moved to my moms house because over where he lived was in Oakland California and was NOT the best in my opinion to raise our daughter. The things I've seen and heard there I would not want my daughter to see or even be around. My mom lives in San Jose California and I lived there pretty much my whole life. Well we had a fall out due to her man (is my dad but I HATE him with a passion for multiple reasons) long story short with this one he and my mom where drunk at Applebees my boyfriend and I took them home my moms man punched me in my face my boyfriend fought him and my moms boyfriend pulled a knife out on me and my boyfriend so I called for cops NOT TO MEANTION I WAS ABOUT 27 WEEKS PREGNANT. My mom saw pretty much the whole thing and LIED to the cops. Anyways so I didn't think Oakland would be best for my boyfriend and I to raise our daughters. So on mothers day I felt bad and decided to tell my mom happy mothers day since it's been around a month I've seen or talked to her. She invited me and my boyfriend to come over to a BBQ they where doing. We went it was a good time and we left. As soon as we got back to Oakland my mom text me and said "Tanisha I missed you and would love to have you come back home" I have a big heart so I ended up forgiving her. I would think San Jose is best to raise my daughter not to mention we wouldn't be in a crowded apartment and a cleaner area. I told her that I think living out there will be best for my daughter and she agreed for my boyfriend and I to move in. Things were good for about a few days until my mom starts taking advantage of my boyfriend. I told her she needs to stop that and stop trying to force him to do things he doesn't want to do. We got into an argument having spoken to her in a day or two. Recently yesterday I was washing my bf and I clothes late at night when nobody was using the washer and saw 3 towels in there out them aside. My mom (has a drinking problem) starts cussing slamming shit because of the towels. I asked her if my clothes are fine there and she goes about "I know ur trying to be sarcastic get the fuck out my face I don't want to deal with you" etc... It lead to her saying my boyfriend has until the 30th to leave my boyfriend had done NOTHING to her besides always helped her and gave her money and demanded more rent money and continued to talk shit. It was a big argument and I'm done. My older sister was very close with her but has notice how shady and wrong our mom is and doesn't want nothing to do with her. None of her kids do. It's my fault believing her and felt bad and came back but I was thinking what's best for our daughter and it's neither of this shit 😢😪 my whole pregnancy has been sooooo tough on me I'm just glad my baby is healthy. Just wish there is a better option we can do. We are on my boyfriends income rn since I'm 8 months and it's hard.