Baby with my boyfriend???

Question

Ladies,  I need some advice.  I've been seeing this guy for about 3 years off and on (I didn't want to commit).  I just starting dating him about 6 months ago and finally I committed to him. I didn't want to date anyone when I first met him because I was dealing with a divorce.  And now I'm in love with him.  We definitely had our differences and I've treated him pretty bad... But we always seem to end up back with each other. Or I always go back to him I should say.  Hes funny,  super smart,  has a huge penis,  and is pretty wealthy.  Would any of you think of having a child with him???  Or your boyfriends??  Please help me!!!!

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I wouldn't have a child with my boyfriend if we were on and off. I personally want to have children when I'm in a commited and lasting relationship (Personally I want kids when I'm married) I also wouldn't recommend having a kid if you're thinking it will help solve your commitment issues. Because it probably won't and that could have a large impact on the child.

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Im sorry but what is wrong with you people? Maybe im old fashioned and was raised differently but having a child with someone is fricken SERIOUS SHIT. You cant be going out and having babies with different men that you are not fully commited to...wait until you are married to a man to have kids. Some of you people got life all fucked up.

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We had the talk about if we would have a kid together.  I know he wouldn't leave the kid for a fact.  I really care about him and he has every trait a woman needs to feel safe.  Hes super loyal and tells me everything. And he takes care of me.  I don't want it to seem like I'm purposely getting pregnant so he doesn't freak out on me.  He's told me that he wants to marry me already.  But hasn't proposed. I'm not sure if I'm ready for marriage but I definitely want him in my life forever.  Hes proven himself to me soooo much and I feel like I haven't proved anything to him... Still on the fence about it.  Can any of you girls help?

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I wouldn't think of it until you both got more serious. 6 months is nothing when you've been on/off. If the commitment isn't there, what's going to happen when a baby comes into the picture? Give it some more time and reconsider. Sit him down and talk to him, see what he wants in life and what you want in life. At six months you're still getting to know eachother even if you've been on/off for three years. People are constantly changing and only you know who's best for you to spend your future with. Just remember if you do have a child with him he'll be in your life forever so make sure he's the one

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I wouldn't think of having a child with him, no. Because I would and do think of having a child with my SO 😆

Our two scenarios are quite different though. I'd see if you two can be steady for longer personally.

Baby with my boyfriend???

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