How can someone say that

So on 5/25 found out I was expecting my first child and I was estatic! I mean we weren't even trying! Now being in the veterinary medicine field I had to be careful about X-ray and gas anesthesia so I told my closest coworkers. Everyone was very excited. Friday night rolls around and I notice a little spotting...ok I guess nothing really to be worried about. All through the night I start to have really bad cramps almost felt like period cramps. Saturday rolls around and I head to a work function and the spotting gets worse and worse and I realize the worst is happening. I go home and call my mom(fb left for work trip to Montana that morning)..she takes me to the er.  While there the biggest clot that I now realize was probably my baby passed.  Fast forward to next Friday, my parents want to sit down with my bf and I...ok free dinner.  There my mother tells me that she is selfishly relieved. Tells me I'm too young (24) not married and it wasn't right.  Fast forward to today 6/3,  again at my parents for dinner, bad leaves a little early for work and my mother tells me after he leaves that she doesn't believe that he is taking care of me and doesn't trust him.  There are no words to describe the kind of hurt that makes a person feel after being with the same person for 3 years. Plus it also makes me feel like my personal healing just took a nose dive and I'm back at that awful Saturday in the er.