My fiancé and I are in our first month of trying. Realistically, we both understand the chances of us conceiving in the first month are extremely slim. That doesn't mean that when I took my first test today and ended up with a BFN that it didn't sting. I was so sure! My body just feels "different." Now I'm second guessing every twinge or any nauseous feeling. I've still got plenty of time to test before AF gets here, it's just that damn test punched me in the gut. I can't imagine what the ladies on here that have been trying for years feel. I didn't "get it." Why it was so disappointing month after month. I still don't understand that pain, but now I understand the sinking feeling of a BFN. All in the Good Lord's time. My hat is of to you, ladies of Glow! You are some of the strongest women I've seen!