Freaking devastated.

I am so heart broken, first when I found out I was pregnant, my best friend/cousin found out she was too! It was so exciting, we were 5 days apart. FIVE days. She lost her precious baby boy at 10 or 11 weeks. I HATE seeing people I love and care about hurt SO much. Now, my best friend of 8 years, went in for her 14 week appointment today, to find that the baby had no heart beat. :( WHY does this have to happen to two people I care about so much. Two people who deserve to have babies. I hate miscarriages. I went through two: and I know how heart breaking they are. I just wish I knew how to respond without overstepping but with making sure they know I'm here. :( blahhhh