Super upset right now. ... :(

Just spoke with my husband regarding my doctors appointment on Friday and the plans for Friday night. He is in a softball league every Friday night which is 45-50 mins away from our house and hospital. I don't get off work til 8pm. I'm not going to go to his game which starts at 6pm and they usually go to the bar afterwards. Mind you we also have a 2 year old in which I have to find a sitter for while he plays. Usually it is my mother who also lives 50 mins away. So I told him it probably wouldn't be a good idea to play softball this Friday when I'm going to be 40 weeks on Sunday. I can go at any moment. I shouldn't drive myself to the hospital if my water breaks and I am going to be super upset if I go thru this alone because he's being selfish to play softball.

He got all upset and angry and was like fine I just won't play for the next month and basically tried to pull a guilt trip. And then got off the phone bc he's at work and there's really no other time to talk due to our schedules.

So now I'm crying because I feel like he's pinned me on a corner where I have to be a bitch abs tell him to grow the fuck up and support his pregnant wife who he wanted to knock up for the second time. Mind you I have been very understanding, he just had a diaper party with all his friends wasted til 2am at our house while im 39 weeks pregnant and I cleaned the house ands cooked the food all for the party.

I'm still working full time and I've sacrificed a lot yet he can't handle missing 3 games? Just beyond upset and pissed off at this point. Just because I don't want the resentment or his guilt trip. I don't see how I'm wrong in this.

Update: this is why I married him. He came home at 10am, (he works 3rd shift ands was working 12 hours, wrapped his arms around me and apologized. He'll be with me Friday night in hopes that this little guy comes finally. And he'll also be home helping me out for the 2 weeks he is home with me and our little ones. Thanks for listening to me rant ladies!