I just lost my baby but want to get pregnant again !! Weird?

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Two days ago I went to my Dr to have an ultrasound, and I found out that my baby didn't have a heart beat. I was 9 weeks and 5 days. They didn't tell me why and I just can't believe it. I'm hurting physically and emotionally. But I just feel like I want to get pregnant again. Is it weird, wrong, selfish? I didn't plan my pregnancy but I felt so good and calm. I'm married. I just feel so envious!! All these women who don't value their babys, pregnancy enough and they get to be pregnant several times!! And I Just felt like I was all down for it, without a doubt and then I lost my baby. I know it was still little but still hurts.😓

I feel so lost...

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Lost my baby at 9w 4d two weeks ago today. Went in for an ultrasound and there was no heartbeat. Had a d&c. Your not alone. I can't wait to try again. I love and miss my baby but I can bring him/her back so I'm gunna move forward and hopefully have a healthy rainbow baby soon.

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I lost my first baby in September at 7 and a half weeks. It's broke me. My husband and I were so lost. We wanted a baby so bad and of course they told us to wait. We didn't use any form of birth control at all after that. We thought if it was meant to be it would happen. One cycle later, we were pregnant and I'm due in August! I know where you're coming from. You're not selfish at all. Good luck!

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I feel you in every way on this subject. I just loss my little girl Tuesday at 41 weeks while giving birth.
We are all here because a child is all we want isn't it?
It's so sad to have that child taken away from us. Just know you are not selfish and never want to replace but are looking to fill your family with more love. 
I'm only two days postpartum but I would give anything to be pregnant again, I would do anything for it right at this moment as to not feel so physically and emotionally empty. Only you are to decide when your heart is ready ❤️

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I'm actively miscarrying - which is the worst. But I've already called a new perinatologist to review my information for my next try. I'm pretty sure my heart exploded as I drove home from the hospital after being told I was miscarrying but I do want a baby and I don't think there's anything wrong with wanting to look toward the future.

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I feel the exact same way. I just lost my baby yesterday at 6 weeks 3 days.

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I don't think you're any of those things. I don't think there is anything wrong with looking to the future when you can't change what has already happened. My husband is ready to try again once my miscarriage is over - I also don't think he's being selfish. We wanted this baby, we are good people but there is nothing we can do to change what's happening.

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I feel the exact same way. I just miscarried starting Sunday. The bleeding stopped today. Now I just want to get pregnant again. It's so hard, especially because one of my close friends who had been trying right along with me got pregnant about a month before I did. We were so excited to go through it all together. Now I just want to get pregnant again so I'm right back with her and on our journey.

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It's a really natural feeling. I wanted to be pregnant again pretty much as soon as I lost my baby. Going on 5 weeks with no BFP. But. It'll come when your body is ready.

I just lost my baby but want to get pregnant again !! Weird?

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