Annoys me

It really annoys me when people tell me my son isnt gonna be taken care of or what they have is better when he has EVERYTHING and more even before my shower which isnt until August. Specially by someone who doesn't have anything not even a diaper. Yes this person is a family member of my boyfriends. Whos 2 months behind me. (Shes due in nov im due in sept) she told me her travel system is better and she only paid 182$ for hers and mine was 400. Etc just erks me cause ive BOUGHT EVERYTHING for my son some were early gifts but other than that me and my bf got everything for him. Im trying to make sure my son has everything and more. Not trying to make it seem like i have better or who has more it's just dont doubt my parenting skills ya no

This is what i have so far