Self-Love Issues

Melina • In progress. Almost a yogi, mostly an artist, always a lover.
Okay so this probably sounds ridiculous but in the last three years I've gained 70lbs and gone from a size 8 to a 16/18 and I am so self conscious. ALL THE TIME. So much so I hate being naked around my husband because of my tummy and back fat. 
I don't think my face is ugly, but I think my body is ugly and I don't know how to love myself without trying to lose weight.
I know I need to lose weight to be healthier but I want to love myself no matter what size I am.
Any advice?