Stay or leave?

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I'm confused, don't really have friends I can talk to about this and I don't know what to do. I'm not happy with my life and feel like I need to be alone. Are relationship isn't working ne more I have tried to leave him 2 different times in the past 6 months but he talks me out of it.we have been together for 9 years, no kids tho. We have moved states to keep him away from drugs and that's why I tried to leave but he said he would stop but I don't think he has. He has a problem and it's meth. I'm done talking to him about it and he won't get help. Should I just pack and leave while he's at work?

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You can't help someone who won't help themselves. It's time to take care of you. Your instincts are leading you in the right direction you just need to take the leap and liberate yourself!

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Go girl!! You deserve happiness

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I think if you aren't happy, and you want to be alone, then do that. But, you can't let him talk you out of it again. If you keep trying to leave, and don't actually do it, it will start to become a meaningless ritual you both go through with. That's not healthy at all.

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You have to think about Yourself first! You, and your happiness is what matters . Love , laugh and enjoy life, we only live once😘

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I think you should follow your instincts and leave. Anytime you're in a relationship like this, there's a point where you need to say enough is enough. You will find freedom in being single for a while. You'll have the chance to meet other people and maybe build some new friendships.

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Leave. Sounds like you tried and you invested so much of your time and energy trying to help him. 9 years. That's crazy. It's time to focus on YOU and your happiness!! Good luck!

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Leave...he will never stop unless he gets help which you say he refuses to get so leave.

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Moving states wont stop him... He'll find a way to get it. I personally would tell him he needs to go to inpatient rehab (and stay off the drug) or goodbye. Meth is going to not only ruin his life but yours as well. Its disgusting. Not to mention if he tries to make it himself he'll probably blow up the house. I have no tolerance for shit like that

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