Have I become a doormat?

I am 33 and married for 1.5 years. We met 12 years ago and after seeing each other for 2 years, he broke up with me and married someone else of his parents choice. Then he came back to me after his divorce. I took him back after 4 years of being confused. I loved him dearly. Long story short, we are largely happily married but it seems like I give more to the marriage emotionally than he does. He prioritizes many things including his weekly soccer before me. I tend to focus on him solely. When we argue, I find him insensitive. My mom just pointed out that on the outside, it is visible that I bend backwards for him while he lives life his way. That got me thinking. I really love him. Talking to him usually leads to arguments. Any advice?