Would you go into a relationship knowing it will end?

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I'm in a relationship with this guy and we both know that I'm gonna have to leave him in a year or so because of family. I was raised to have an arranged marriage and the guy I'm in a relationship with doesn't meet the criteria at all. So I told him that I will always choose family and we're both content with this decision to end our relationship a year from now. Am I crazy?

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I would as politely as possible explain to my family it's time to move out from under their rock and into the 21st century. Arranged marriage...uh no thanks.

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How do you know your current s/o isnt just saying he is ok with it and hoping youll stick around in the end? Seems a little selfish of you....

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Hey pretty! I'm not willing to judge. But just want to say that you deserve the right to choose who do you love and like to pass the rest of your life with. I understand that your family raised you like that and agree that family is first. But please open your mind and give to your relationship the real opportunity. No one deserve to married with someone that they don't really love. Marriage it's more than a family plan, it's more than sex. Marriage it's love, comprehension, communication and most important it's about two people, not a whole family. Wishing you the best and hope you think about it.

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I wouldn't do that now, but I would have in the past, I still find beauty (and pain) in my past relationships that didn't last.

Proceed with caution.

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To each their own. If you guys think is sane and healthy. Go for it.

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Yes, I had a relationship in the past that we both knew would likely end.  Was theoretically going to be 3 months, ended up being 15 months.

Even though it is not standard for my own culture, I believe arranged marriages can be a beautiful thing.  It can be match making for the good of all, and turn into beautiful loving mutually supportive union.

I do believe that mutual respect and common sense of humor must be at the foundation of any relationship for it to be healthy and thrive.

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You might fall in love with this guy and want to marry him.
Is it worth the heartache for you and him?
You may end it early but you could be missing him and regretting it forever?

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I wouldn't. I know how attached I become to everyone and everything. But it could be OK for someone else.

Would you go into a relationship knowing it will end?

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