tips on becoming more self-confident?

Question

Summer is here and that means it's time for bathing suits, shorts, and tank tops! I just get super nervous about wearing these type of clothes. I'm 5'3 and 105 lbs so I'm in shape, I just don't know how to feel confident. Any tips?

Answer

First of all, find features that you like and emphasize them. Second, don't wear something you're uncomfortable with, because you will just look uncomfortable and not pretty/sexy. Third, don't follow everyone else (or do) and wear an outfit you love.

Answer

Talk to yourself in the mirror every morning, good vibes only. I know that sounds kind of ridiculous, but it works.

Smile a lot! Smiling produces a "happy hormone" (I believe it's seratonin). It makes you happier, and when you're happy you don't feel the need to worry about if your hair or makeup is just right. Also, smiling uses less energy/muscles than frowning.

Find someone to go with you to help keep your mind off of every little imperfect detail.

When talking to yourself in the mirror, address your bad qualities. Try and understand that they are apart of you, and they help make up who you are, whether you like it or not. Then, tell yourself that everyone likes different things on different people. One of your bad qualities (in your eyes) may be something that grabs someone else's attention and gets them to fall for you.

Finally, if your having trouble feeling confident in your appearance or anything else, remind yourself that you are actually nothing but a brain. You're literally nothing but a lump of meat on top of a spine. What people see is not actually who you are, and keep that thought in mind as solace. If you want people to see what you are beyond the cage you're in, then you have to show them.

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