I've never had a boyfriend... What is wrong with me?

Question

I'm 18 years old and I've never had a boyfriend. The furthest I've gone with a guy is literally a hug. Pathetic, I know.

I know this is really stupid but I can't help but feel so bad about it. I can't help but wonder is there something wrong with me?

I just need to find a way to stop feeling so depressed about all this but it's like all my friends have had experience wit and there's me whose never had a guy show any interest in me. I hate feeling like the odd one out and I don't know what to do.

Is there something about me that I should change to be more attractive to guys?

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I'm the same as you. I don't go for most guys and have other things on my plate. Take care of yourself and research. You are more likely to regret 'getting it over with' than regretting you waited until you were ready.

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I'm 23 and have just gotten into my first relationship. It'll happen when it happens. Don't sweat it. Just be outgoing and put yourself in situations to meet new people

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I thought I was cursed for a while because my relationships couldn't go beyond 2 months,  turns out I just dated a lot of the wrong people. ..it's likely that you haven't entered an environment with suitable males yet, hang in there honey

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Don't change anything about yourself. Everyone experiences something at their own pace. There's even people who lie about relationships. Things take time, and you are still young it's not like you are turning sixty! Just wait your time will come. But if this bothers you, just communicate with people, try to build a connection. Things can build up from there. But don't change. Im only a year younger, but I still think my advice is good. 💕

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Everything will
Fall into place on its own. God has a plan for you! Be patient 😊

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Didn't start dating anyone, my current fiancé, till I was 20.

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It will happen as you become more comfortable with yourself.  My stepdaughter is the same way.  I can tell that the opposite sex is interested in her, but she's a bit shy with them.  One issue for her is that she is almost too busy at times to have boyfriend. She is in varsity basketball and football.  Honestly it's things like that, that make you a more attractive person.  Men want to see that you are comfortable with yourself and that you have interests beyond them.  Laugh, be open, be yourself, and don't be afraid to have fun with them.  Boys and men are also very visual so dressing appealing can help.  Just remember not to wear clothing you are not comfortable with.  You will end up looking uncomfortable in your own skin.

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Without seeing a picture of you, we really can't answer the last question. I wouldn't worry about it though, just be confident and work on your glow up! Try wearing dresses and makeup to school, that worked for me :)

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High standards? Nothing is wrong with you but don't feel bad a month after I turned 18 I finally got my first boyfriend and he has been my first everything. And I'm still with him. I honestly thought there was something wrong with me. I always went for the type of guys I liked/wanted and that never worked out. But as soon as I stopped looking for "my type" I now have the most amazing boyfriend. Don't worry babe he'll come soon enough 💕💕

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Don't change change anything about yourself just be you! And start mingling to meet new people like go out and have fun but never let it make you depressed I'm pretty sure you will find someone out there for you boo!!!😚💯

I've never had a boyfriend... What is wrong with me?

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