Hope im not on labor just yet!!!

OMG!! So, as of yesterday evening I have been wearing an adult diaper (don't judge me) because theres been some instances where I almost peed myself. Like almost every time I have to pee at night, and then there was this time I was running my hands in cold water and I had the urge to pass gas and I almost peed myself. The same thing happened today. Anyway, I've also had diarrhea for the past three or four days and I was dilated 1 cm as of Thursday.

This morning I was peeing (sometimes I have to push harder than normal to empty my bladder since he is on it) and I heard/felt a pop. I couldn't tell if it was my vag or my butt (I'm constipated today)

I'm a bit uncomfortable with the urge to poop but nothing is coming out. And when he moves I can feel him really low in my uterus. I had some sweet tea water and now I'm eating cold green apple slices, and I'm fixing to drink this Capri Sun.

My first pregnancy, my niece is having her birthday party in a few hours at the pool and I can't tell if I'm in labor or not and my belly hasn't dropped... Ugh

I hope not. I just crossed my legs and felt like I leaked a little. And I have lower back pressure when he moves...