My big mamas!!

When did you really start showing? And was it easy to embrace the bump? I'm 11w6d and last night after sex, not the best time buddy LOL, my BD was spooning me and says "I mean this in the nicest way .. You got little baby belly" and I got a little sad LOL I don't feel like I'm gaining baby bump, I feel like I'm just too lazy to suck in my fat fat LOL but it is rounding at the bottom and feeling firmer.