Okay ladies me and my hubby need some spice up in the bedroom

Ladies I need your help. We have been on a freeze and it's like with work and stress we both are not interested in it. I tried to get him going but je said baby I love you I'm just not in the mood. I have been struggling with pcos and dr told me possible premenopause signs so we are scheduled soon for an appointment. I need some good ideas of what to do. He isn't cheating or anything just having issues himself too I guess. Please help ladies.