Rant!! Men!!

Sophie
My husband is so lazy he don't hardly do anything I know he can cuz she shown me before he chooses not to I now know that he's currently sat here on his game grr I've done dinner sorted both kids out out youngest to bed and then cleaned up all this at 6 weeks pregnant feeling like shit!! Omg he thinks cuz he brings majority of money and pays the larger amount of bills that's his way of helping and I should be lucky wtf? Does my nut in xx
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I guess I am lucky.  I don't work because of school and trouble early on in pregnancy.  My SO works hard, pays all the bills, cooks, cleans, and washes clothes.  I think a man should do more and not expect a woman to do all the house chores.  

Ja

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It's taken a while but gradually getting my guy to do more around the house. Sit him down and tell him how you feel see if he will listen xx

Ly

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I agree with him. If he is the bread winner and works then the household stuff is your job. Sorry if that's old fashioned but it's the truth. I would never complain about my partner he works hard and supports us all its because of him we have a roof over our heads and food in our bellies the least I can do is look after the kids and keep a nice house.

Ly

Lydia • Jun 21, 2016
Agreed Morgan. I don't have a problem with a man helping out its great. But I know one girl who's partner works with my SO. She basically sits around all day doesn't clean, her partner works 12 hr shifts and he comes home puts the kids to bed and makes his own food while she says she is tired from looking after them all day. It really is awful to see the poor man is exhausted and she is taking advantage. I think if a person doesn't work whether they are male or female and the other partner does work then the house and kids should be the non workers job as such. I know it's not popular opinion but it really annoys me 😂😂😂😂😂😂

Ly

Lydia • Jun 21, 2016
Well say it to him if it bothers you so much. I want being rude just I personally don't work and I see my role as housekeeper. I know it's old fashioned but I enjoy it right now. But if you need help with stuff ask him and see what he says.

Mo

Morgan • Jun 21, 2016
My hubby loves to help out. Especially now with me being pregnant. I get why you say this, most women feel the need to lead the household but I dont see anything wrong with a man cooking and cleaning. very helpful. and very sexy 😁

Mo

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My hubby helps out tons with housework, organizing, prepping for baby etc. Sorry he's not doing anything. I'd speak up

So

Sophie • Jun 21, 2016
Very lucky mine ain't apparently I have to ask him to help and I'm like why should I you should do it x

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I'm out of work and take care of all household chores and such. Have done it since then beginning, whether I feel sick or not. My boyfriend busts his butt at work all day and is the only one bringing in money though so it's truly the least that I could do. 🤔

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𝓂𝒾𝓁𝓀𝓎 𝓂𝒶𝓂𝒶 • Jun 21, 2016
Yeah that would bug me. My boyfriend doesn't always have the energy to come home from work and help around the place but he does at least help out every other day or so even with minuscule tasks like vacuuming.

So

Sophie • Jun 21, 2016
Just take our youngest to bed x

So

Sophie • Jun 21, 2016
But not helping at all? We bust our ass to at home kids are hard work his job his clock on clock ours as mums are wake up until we sleep job we both wanted kids but why should I be looking after them both and myself carrying our baby I don't expect him to walk thro the door and do everything x

Jo

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I do most of the house work.. simply cause I'm a clean freak.. but I do ask my husband to help out when I need it.. I'll ask him to help me wash dishes or clean the bathroom.. he does cook on the weekends (someone during the week if I'm not feeling well) and he always throws away the trash.. he is a very hard worker tho and I went from working full time to only part time so I don't mind getting the house work done