Lately my sex drive has skyrocketed. My boyfriend seemed to have been caught off guard with the intensity of my lust for him during intercourse. Has anyone ever had this experience? Should I come down or just be me I'm not sure if I should bring it down or Nagy for him or if he'll learn to enjoy it and if he was just caught off guard the first time. Also have any of you ladies had a abrupt increase in your sex drive I'm about to be 30 and all of a sudden it's like I want it all the time.