Soo the other day I was playing a game on my fiancés phone and he end up getting a message from one of his close friends so me I'm curious click on the message and it shows him asking his friend does he have any acid see now I have no idea what that drug does I just heard it's a trip and it's really bad for you just like all drugs..

Like a month or so ago he asked me to do acid I said no because I don't do those kinds of things but I didn't think nothing of it not even if he had taken acid I just brushed it off and he asked me to start smoking and drinking which I don't do don't get me wrong I tried smoking before it wasn't my cup of tea and drinking I am a mess I can't handle that but he got me to drink any way and kept wanting me to do it more often and I just kept telling him no that's not my thing and he knows this but so I'm not sure why he's trying to get me in to this

I've been trying to get him to stop drinking because I started to see him drink it every day like it was water one day we were driving and kept smelling something fruity but an odd fruity smell coming from a water bottle and I asked him is that alcohol and he said yes like WTF who does that just drink and drive in day light just freaking drinking and driving period come on now

Then he chews dip ???

And now I'm finding out he does acid

I don't care for the smoking part

But I honestly don't know what to do

Do I confront him on this and how do I approach this kind of topic I never been in this kind of situation before

He mentions alot of things to me that concerns me but won't tell me the full story like he gets night terrors about his past but won't tell me what they are about

Idk if it's the military or what but I need him to stop doing this negative stuff and open up more Idk what to do

(I'm sorry the story is all over the place and very long)