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Is this abusive? Or some sort of bdsm dom/sub

Shae • I love girl talk!
So apparently I had this new boyfriend now, but I'm only allowed to call him sir, master, or daddy... And when we're in private he wants me dressed a certain way ... Basicly I'm his girlfriend, being his "whore" in private... Is this an abusive relationship or is this some bdsm shit, I'm just not use to... 
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Sa

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It seems like a Dom/Sub maybe even Dom/Sl. I'm into that. However, he needs to be fully open and honest with you about it. You need to know what you are getting into so you can do so willingly.

Cj

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It sounds like a Dom/sub relationship he is after 

Ro

Robin • Jun 22, 2016
It does sound like this, but these relationships need to be agreed on and emotional safety is important. There are some good books that can help.

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Shae • Jun 22, 2016
Ok good thank you!

Mi

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If you aren't comfortable doing it I would let him know and if he's pissed then I wouldn't bother dating him. 

VH

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Uh you didn't agree to or seek out this sort of relationship? That's really troubling.

VH

VH • Jun 22, 2016
Wow yeah run like the wind away from this guy. This is absolutely abusive.

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Shae • Jun 22, 2016
I didn't he just asked and is like ya you're my girl

Er

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It sounds like bdsm talk. But if you're not comfortable or you guys have never talked about it.... Then it's not cool. You have to have hard limits with that stuff and communication is extremely important. I'd talk to him.

Je

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Its not abusive if you decide to stay after knowing hes into this sub dom stuff and agree to it. Know what you're getting into. Good luck
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