Is this abusive? Or some sort of bdsm dom/sub

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So apparently I had this new boyfriend now, but I'm only allowed to call him sir, master, or daddy... And when we're in private he wants me dressed a certain way ... Basicly I'm his girlfriend, being his "whore" in private... Is this an abusive relationship or is this some bdsm shit, I'm just not use to...

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It seems like a Dom/Sub maybe even Dom/Sl. I'm into that. However, he needs to be fully open and honest with you about it. You need to know what you are getting into so you can do so willingly.

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It sounds like a Dom/sub relationship he is after

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If you aren't comfortable doing it I would let him know and if he's pissed then I wouldn't bother dating him.

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Uh you didn't agree to or seek out this sort of relationship? That's really troubling.

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It sounds like bdsm talk. But if you're not comfortable or you guys have never talked about it.... Then it's not cool. You have to have hard limits with that stuff and communication is extremely important. I'd talk to him.

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Its not abusive if you decide to stay after knowing hes into this sub dom stuff and agree to it. Know what you're getting into.  Good luck

Is this abusive? Or some sort of bdsm dom/sub

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