5 Things I Really Wish People Would Stop Doing

This was my nose pre pregnancy so when I have the baby its not going anywhere and my nose isn't even big people just assume cause I'm pregnant that my nose was smaller than this. Don't create an insecurity that wasn't there before.

2. Stop telling me enjoy my pregnancy boobs while they last.

My boobs were a 38H before pregnancy and at 34weeks pregnant they're still a 38H no milk and they are not the work of the baby they are genetically designed to be huge look at my family.

3. Stop telling me my life is over now that I'm having a baby.

My life is not over at all I can still take vacations whenever I want and my baby will becoming with me so she can see the world. I can still spend money without checking my bank account because I make salary and I have a decent job that comes with naturally paid vacations plus I get actual vacation time. Just because your life ended when you had a kid doesn't mean mine will. Just because having a kid was hard for you doesn't mean it will be for me. Everyone's life is different don't force your hardships on me. Spoiler alert some people are actually financially prepared to have a kid.

4. Stop assuming because I'm 25 and a first time mom I don't know what to do with a baby.

I don't need or want your advice because I see some of y'all kids in school. Y'all think y'all doing a good job and y'all kids are the worst of the worst and y'all out here raising statistics. I only take advice from people I consider a good mom not anyone who considers themself a good parent. It takes more than love to raise a child and not everybody understands that. Classroom management to a class full of 30 kids is equivalent to good parenting of 1 kid if I can do the first why would I not be able to do the second🤔 I'll wait for the experienced mom to tell me why I can't or why it's hard...

5. Stop telling me to say goodbye to my body.

What the fuck do you mean is my body just gonna get up and walk away from the delivery room like just because you blew up and couldn't lose your baby weight doesn't mean that's gonna happen to everybody I still weigh less now at 34 weeks pregnant than I did before I was pregnant so when I have this baby by default my body is gone be better than before I was pregnant and if you worried about stretch marks I had those from when I gained weight on birth control years ago. So please tell me where my body going #QTNA 🤔