Stop thinking and it will happen??

So this was my least favourite thing people would say to me when I was single. If I stopped looking and trying it would happen. I thought that was a load. But literally, the night I met my so, I was in a space where I was totally accepting that I was single and that was ok, and he came up to me at a pub and bam! We have been together ever since. Maybe that's the same attitude I need for a while at the beginning here of ttc. I'm just so excited to start a family. When I was previously married (over 10 years ago), I so thought I was ready. But we didn't, and now I get to share this amazing miracle with such a great guy. So I guess a goal this month is to relax.