My current boyfriend is not financially responsible, he says that he wants to get married and buy a house with me etc. but he is not saving any money! I'm pulling most of the weight and I'm so frustrated because he makes more than me, and I'm still able to save. I don't know what to do but we can't keep continuing this pattern. I've talk to him about this for over a year and honestly I'm tired of begging him to get his act together