Ok so my dad who lives in Oregon offered me and the kids a place to live which pissed off my husband's mom...his sister don't believe in divorce and well my husband thinks it will be great if I go and clear my head and then come back.. But explain to me why would I want to come back to where I got disrespected by not only his mom but by him as well.. Where I'm having to buy my own food for just me because his mom who cooks for everyone refuses to cook for me.. My husband don't stand up for me and we'll his kids saw when their nana made pancakes for everyone except me and expected me to make my own with what was left.. She now treats my kids differently ... I'm on disability so I'll get 584 every two weeks.. I have nowhere to go in San Jose except a motel because the shelters are full and no one out here can help me.. But everyone has advice...