HELP... divorce help

I'm in the middle of tryin to get divorced, the court I'm threw won't help me with anything at all... I called to ask them stuff n they won't tell me anything. They say I gotta go by their check list online.... is there any possible way o could transfer my divorce to another county? Or does it have to be the one that I got married in??? They are stressing me out to the max.... please help me!!!!