Virginity

I'm 19, lost my virginity to a guy I have mutual friends with but met on tinder about a month ago, he stopped talking to me after as he said it was a one night thing and he knew he took my virginity but I can't help but feel kind of guilty and bad as I feel he doesn't even care and I didn't expect him to just completely ignore and stop talking to me after, he was really nice :/ if I'm being honest too, it didn't feel good and hurt, he didn't cum and I didn't, I feel like I just want to message him even though the last thing he said to me was 'see you around' what should I do?