What's ur biggest pet peeve

Mine is when people make somebody feel bad for expecting a gift at there baby shower  like I'm about to spend $500 on food and then another 500 for games and bath and body works goodie bags yeah I expect to get a gift I don't care care if it's one dollar or hundred or you could  just fucking bring food,bring me food I'm fucking happy with that and the definition of a fucking baby shower is the shower the mother in gift