Pregnancy vent...updated
My mother did some real low shit back in April about a year ago she had given me a car that had been dead in her yard for a year and she told me and my boyfriend come get it or its going to the scrap yard...for 300 in parts we fixed it ourselves and got to start...let's say she was kicking herself in the ass even tho she had bought a new car she could have fixed that one and not had the payment and problems with the new car. Now a year later I'm expecting my 3rd child total being 5 because we both had two from previous relationships...well now unless we wanted to take two cars everywhere we needed a bigger vehicle...and my boyfriend bought me a van so he could drive my car my mother gave me since his isn't even safe to drive. Well my mother did like that he was driving the car and demand it back since I broke the conditions of body but me was allowed to drive it.... wtf are you serious. So after I told her she was childish and he bought me the van yes it in his name but the car was still in mine! She says well I want for a second car and I can let your bother use it since he bought a broken car....I gave my brother a car we had bought for 2700 for free because it over heated within a month and it sat at my father's and I said he could have it...but now I'm childish because I won't give her the car she gave me back to her to let him use it. Well I ended up not speaking to her and I gave the my car to my brother(second car i just gave him) and my boyfriend said he would put the work into his car and fix it. Since I wasn't speaking to her I lost my job working weeknd as a lna because she would watch them for a few hours till I got home. So I've been out of work since may now. It's keeps going...I was on her plan for my phone so she shut that off since I wasn't paying..understandable. now all we have is his income and what's left of our tax return after we bought the van. He's spent over 2000 in car parts for his car...still not running....and this leads up to the final thing where I lost it....I've used all of my money for bills when I worked I paid our rent the electricity everything I paid...well I'm not working and I've been telling him electricity needed to be paid over and over ....we it got shut off and I had to take money out of the tax return to get it paid and was charged to reconnect. I lost it! I was so mad at him for being more about this car and me having to beg to get thing for this baby because we had no help from family and he's been all about his car parts I'm due in 2 weeks for my c section and just a few days ago I finally got cars seat and things we needed. Adding to we have shit for money saved now with baby and car parts and the electricity getting shut off pushed me over the edge. My family sucks and I'm the one left to handle bills even tho I don't work and I'm broke and can't even put gas in the van that was bought for me. And after I tell him they shut it off and I had to pay it and the reconnecting he says oh well things happen pay and move on. I'm so tried of everything and being pregnant is one of the top things cuz I'm crying so badly it hurts.
UPDATE...HONESTLY it was him who said we would help my brother and give him the car cuz he's going through a divorce and almost lost his house(just trying to get me to go along) he couldn't let go of his junk car and wanted to fix it...well he's realized that he should have given on his car my birthdays in may so the inspection on my car given to be by my mother was almost up so it was fix mine or his old one and he wanted to fix his old one....poor choice and I went along with it....
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