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I've really only had 2 real relationships. And sometimes I feel really lonely. no guy probably likes talking to me because I'm not "hot" enough for them. I don't feel pretty, beautiful, or gorgeous when people tell me I am. When I feel confident, then some people just burst my bubble. I only talk to two of my best guy friends. Like I wanna talk to someone all the time. I wanna spill my hear out to him if I can't tell my best friend right then and there. Sometimes I just don't know what to do. When my best friend talks to so many guys on the phone and I try to talk they just ignore me and that's when I stop talking until she gets off the phone. I try to stay positive all the time but I just can't.... Any advice?

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Find yourself someone who will treat you right!

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No one can stay positive all the time, but it starts with a decision to work on it. Start speaking positivity, don't look to other people to be the source of your confidence, you have to fuel your own self esteem. Don't try to be others because you were made to be you. Each person has his or her own idea of what's attractive and you never know the reason why some guys may or may not like you. Tell yourself that you are strong, tell yourself that you are beautiful, and why. Focus on the things you like about yourself and fine tune the areas (personality and appearance wise) that you may feel you want to work on but only for you not for others. It is hard when it seems like your friend gets male attention and you don't as often but there are plenty of guys beyond school or your workplace etc. you'd be surprised by who may be interested in you, but sometimes you have to take risks and step out of your comfort zone. Having a boyfriend isn't just getting attention and having someone to talk to, it's a responsibility too (granted you can date for fun, but if you want something real and lasting it won't always be happy go lucky). Make more friends who you trust and even turn to family you trust to talk about what's going on with you, boys (well the wrong ones) may only be there when it's convenient for them whereas real friends will be there for you through thick and thin. Answer: who am I? Why do I feel this way? And be honest about those things, start taking time to take care of yourself and to improve your mindset. I am telling you, once your confidence starts to improve it will show and more people will be drawn to you. Not everyone will understand you or get along with you but that's life. You have to learn to be okay even if they don't like you.

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