Is an elective c-section SELFISH?? πŸ˜’πŸ˜”πŸ˜”

Marie β€’ My baby boo is expected to arrive on July 7, 2016. Can't wait to meet you❀️
My husband is really working my nerves regarding the delivery of my son. Let me give you all a little background on my story. I had my daughter 8 years ago at 32 weeks via emergency Β c-section because I had severe preeclampsia. I never felt contractions, water breaking, etc. Fast forward to now, my due date for my son is today and I have had no signs of labor coming. I was told by my doctor that I would not be induced if he didn't come on his own so it's he come on his own or c-section. I was told a had a 55% chance of a successful VBAC and the chances would be higher if my body went into labor with no help. I considered VBAC because I'm never getting pregnant again and wanted to experience all those things I mentioned that I didn't experience in my first pregnancy. At the same time, I was freaking out and scared about a vaginal birth and seemed more comfortable with a cesarean delivery because I had one once before. This is my husband's first child and he keeps going back and forth about vaginal and surgery and he is making me feel very confused. Everytime I make up my mind, he changes his. My c-section is tomorrow morning and he pulls this stunt today. The baby is doing fine but I'm tired and ready to have my son. My mom agrees with him but no one is hearing me. Am I being selfish??