TMI...in need of someone who has similar experience...

So I've been cleared of STDs. It's not that. However, since I've gotten pregnant I've been told I have a friable cervix and I bleed easily. When I urinate, it feels normal until the very end...like slight burning. Every great now and then the outside of my vagina gets irritated like it stings..almost like my pH is off or something and it irritates my skin a lot. Now, I've told my doctor all of this but they seem to think nothing is wrong with me. I however feel something is. Also, under the skin on the side of my vagina where my leg meets every now and then there is a small bump under the skin almost like an ingrown hair...which maybe it's all it is idk. I'm just lost. I'm sick of it. Also, at my first ultrasound I was told I have a fibroid. Then at my 12 week appointment my doctor scraped my cervix and ended up having to put a salve on to stop the bleeding and she made it very clear it was abnormal...yet all tests come out normal? I'm at a loss...