dH and i want to move across the states from Arizona to Pennsylvania by march of next year. We also want a kid. Problem is we want our parents to be there when baby is born. So if we leave in march they wont be able to be there for the baby because theyre kinda on the lower income category of monies.. If we stay and have baby here then they will be able to be there when babya born but im an only child and so is my husband so our baby. Will be the only grandkid and we dont want to steal that chance away from Our parents by not letting them be grandparents. And of we stay in Arizona and not move to Pennsylvania then were going to be unhappy. We have both lived here our whole lives and this heat is effing terrible. We dont wanna deal with it anymore. So what the hell do we do?