SEX: Does the first time hurt?

Question

So I'm finally going into high school and sometime in high school I may or may not loose my precious virginity, may it be drunk at a party or with the person I trust and love but what I'm terrified about if if the first time hurts. I want my first time to be enjoyable not painful. So tell me, does it hurt? A lot? A little? Please I need to get the idea that I'm going to be in so much pain I'm going to screen out of my head. Help!?

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It does hurt a little but. It's more uncomfortable then pain. It hurts only a little when he puts it in and takes it out. And you can bleed I did. Very little. Not everyone bleeds. And the first few times will hurt and it will hurt to pee after sex until at least the 10th time.

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Didnt hurt at all for me, you just need to relax and be comfy with the person your doing it with, make sure its the person you really love and trust and have been with them for a long time, and highschool isnt what you think 😂, unless it does go that way, goodluck and enjoy your last years and stay in school and work hard! I graduate this year and time flys fast 😊

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It didn't hurt me that much but then again, he wasn't very big😂 don't lose it at 15 with an upperclassmen who doesn't care about how you feel lol. I'm nearly 17 now and still regret who I lost my virginity to. I wish I would've saved it for the man I'm with now

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It depends on the person. I've heard some stories where it hurt a lot, some where it didn't hurt at all, and (like me) where it was uncomfortable because of the stretching but that's about it. Also, some people don't bleed. Some bleed a lot, some don't bleed at all. Everyone's different, the main thing is to make sure you're with someone you trust and are 100% comfortable with, and LOTS OF FOREPLAY. The more aroused you are, the better it is wether it's your 1st time or your 100th time.

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Please please please please do not lose your virginity drunk at a party. There is absolutely no good outcome to that. Please. 
When I lost it, it did not hurt at all in the moment but I was a bit sore the next day. I was sore inside of me, not from tearing though. 
Just please be safe and do it with someone you love. I'm not one to preach waiting, seeing as I lost my virginity the first day I started dating my first boyfriend (who I am still with 16 months later), but I have a friend who got extremely drunk at a party and had sex with a guy and it has torn her to pieces every day since. 
My advice on knowing when it's right is if you wouldn't regret doing it when you broke up. 
Good luck in high school though!! I just graduated and it is so incredibly weird knowing that it's over.

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Since you've already gotten some advice on losing your virginity, I'm just going to go ahead and let you know that high school is NOT all its pent up to be.... Everybody is an asshole that is just there to get what they want. They don't care who they screw over and how it effects them... I'm going to be a junior this year, and the past two years have been complete hell for me, brace yourself to run through the dark side.

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