My husband hates our babies...

Maybe hate is a bit much but he sure as hell doesn't act like he loves or even likes our infant twins. He's constantly angry at them for crying or fussing, hes one of the most patient people I know and he loses patience with them within minutes.  He is avoiding us whenever he can, he helps me to an extent but doesn't enjoy being around our little beautiful babies at all.  He keeps saying he can't wait till they are a few months old and can give some sort of response and he has admitted that he "sucks at this" but it's making me dislike him.  I never in my life pictured him this way, he's always wanted children and was more excited than I was when he found out we were pregnant but now that they are here, and home, he's a completely different person. He just seems so cold toward them and honestly toward me too. We've been together for over 15 years and it's making me seriously contemplate divorce for the first time. We said from the get go, we will always put each other first bc in the end when our babies move out its just me and him but right now I just don't even like being around him, although sadly, I desperately need his help taking care of 2, even tho I'd rather not have his help bc it just makes all 4 of us miserable when he's around. Do husbands get baby blues? Will this pass? I tried talking to him and he says he will try but nothing's gotten better. 🙏🏼😢😔