When can husband feel baby move?

What were your week totals and when did your husband or significant other feel the baby. I can feel mine a tiny bit now I'm 17 weeks tomorrow so I am wondering how much longer til he will feel it. He rubs my hips and tummy and baby moves and I feel the flutter or flicking like sensation but he's sad. He's like baby I want to feel him move. We don't know gender too but he & I want a boy!!! 🐳⚓️💕