Need HELP 😞

Cynthia
Okay so ill try to make this as short as possible ,
So i've been staying with my bf & his mom plus everyone else that lives here for a while (little over a month) i love staying here but of course sometimes everyone gets on my nerves like in a typical family , im 35 about to be 36 weeks & my mom has been telling me that i need to come over & get everything ready for the baby which i know but i just want to stay with my bf for as long as i can because i barely used to see him & especially now that he works on weekends so its good that i've been here ever since he started his job to spend time with him . Lately my mom has been really selfish about the baby , she wants EVERYTHING to be at our house & she doesnt like that im staying here , she talks bad about my mom's bf because at first she wanted to do a picnic instead of my baby shower then later said she'll do a seperate baby shower to make up for it , ever since then omg 😒 i threw the whole thing over my shoulder & didnt keep that grudge held , my mom did my baby shower with no help because she wanted none & at the end of the day did need help , she still holds the grudge of my bfs mom not helping till this day when she really wanted & offered to help . I just want to know if i should move out of my mom's & move in with my bfs mom , my mom didnt want my bf staying with us & i believe my bfs mom doesnt mind me moving in at all since she suggested it before , but i dont want my mom to feel like crap because she did get everything for my baby & helped , out a lot . Ughhh what should i doooo ! Help 😬