Tired of it

I'm so sick and tired of my boyfriend talking to me the way he does. It's not all the time but more than once a week. He always curses at me saying stuff like shut the fuck up or calling me a bitch which I have told him to stop doing because it's obviously not a joke and I'm tired of it. He just doesn't get it. Tonight we went out with friends and had a great time. As soon as we got in his truck he said, idk why you fucking raised your voice at me and made me look like a fucking idiot. And I never raised my voice at him the entire evening. I did not apologize like I normally do because I didn't do anything wrong. He's the one who is always talking down to me. It wasn't this bad until we moved in together and idk what to do. I love him but I hate the way he talks to and treats me sometimes.