Friends w/ Benefits with someone you dislike?

Question

I hooked up with this guy a little while ago at a party, then met up with him again a few days later and hooked up again (didn't have sex either time, just 2-3rd base) and he's very attractive and sends me like exposing snapchats all the time... We are planning to hang out again and even though we didn't say it explicitly it's basically just to hookup. I don't have any romantic feelings for him whatsoever.
 
I'm usually comfortable hooking up with people I'm not romantically interested in as long as we set clear boundaries and we both know the nature of our relationship, but I'm having a bit of trouble with this guy because I honestly wouldn't be friends with him if we weren't friends with benefits...

I don't like his personality, and he's the type of guy that if he were anybody else with the same personality, I would be saying "wow what a douchebag I hope his dick stays dry forever". It's not like I'm gods gift to men but I feel bad giving someone pleasure when I don't think they deserve it lol😂 I'm basically having troubles prioritizing MY pleasure over his unworthiness of pussy. Someone help clear up this ugly moral cloud in my head so I can either meet up with him or take my business elsewhere😅

Answer

Ctfu. Girl. Omg. Ok. So think about this. You don't have to be friends just to have a booty call. You can Have sex and be on your merry little way. No "friends" with benefits. Just benefits.

Now you wonder if he's "worthy" of pussy. Are you "worthy" of dick?? What type question is that? You don't know him , like him, nor are you interested in remotely dating him so it's not about him "deserving" or being "worthy" of anything. It's more about what you want and if you want to get your rocks off with this guy. if you do, then do it. You're questioning if you should because you aren't friends but yet you're making out with him?? Sex is sex. Sounds like you want to just use each other for sex so let it be that and go on about your business with no attachments.

Answer

I dated a guy for 6 yrs who I wasn't particularly fond of 😆, even had sex with him the day I left him. Sex can have zero to do with emotion if you can separate the two. If the sex was terrible AND you didn't like him, then that would be strange.

Friends w/ Benefits with someone you dislike?

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