Virginity "taken"

There are a lot of ladies on here that talk about how they lost their virginity at a young age but it was due to rape. Some people will say that virginity isn't real but if I were to define it, it would be alone the lines of when you have had sex with a partner. Okay? And rape isn't sex. It's rape. Don't feel sad that you lost your virginity when you didn't want to because that isn't what happened! You can still lose your virginity to someone that you care about and actually consent to. Please stop thinking of rape as sex 😭