My dh and i are supposed to start ttc in September. I've wanted a baby since i was 24 (4yrs ago) due to financial and medical reasons we were forced to wait. Now I'm wondering if its selfish to bring a child in this world. (Please don't be offended this is just an opinion) we live in a country ruled by hatred. If you're white you're hated for being racist even when you're not if you're black your hated for being a thug even when you're not if you're Hispanic your hated for being illegal even when you're not. And so on. I live in a school district that is awful but we're not moving any time soon cuz we just put a ton of money in our home. I'm afraid we're gonna have a child and he or she will suffer. Poor education, low paying jobs a government fueled by money and hate. I want a baby so badly but is it selfish?