Sorry for the negative post but I just gotta let it out.... My husband and I have been trying for almost a year now to get pregnant. One of our good friends has sex with her husband once before they were married unprotected and gets pregnant. And I see her with her daughter everyday and see how happy she is and it just kills me. Now I do live a different lifestyle then most as I'm an Army wife. So my day to day life can be stressful in some ways. But for the most part my husband and I live a stress free life. And we are both extremely happy people. But every month when my best friend comes it hurts and kills me. Today it's has been the worst of it all ever. Because our friends were talking about trying for anther when her daughter is only just 7 months old. And I still haven't had my first. She so effortlessly had a child when she didn't want one at that time. Both her and her husband were going army. She found out while at basic.... Yet I'm sitting here trying to have one and can't seem too. My husband deploys soon and we would like to be pregnant just before he deploys so hopefully I will carry full term and he will hopefully be home by the time I am suppose to deliver but at this rate I don't think it will happen. We've talked to doctors and done test and they can't find anything wrong. And they don't want to do any fertility drugs cause they say I'm very fertile and he has a high sperm count and I'm healthy as a clam besides a back injury and some past medical problems that they say don't effect me now. So I just take my vitamins everyday. And have sex every other day. Yet nothing helps. My husband and I have always led a very healthy active sex life since we first started to date. So why can't I get pregnant yet so many other women can just get pregnant so easily. I'm so jealous and get so down on myself when I get my period. I just wish I could get a BFP.