I'm lost and confused; why couldn't you just talk to me?
We've been together for three years; I've been sick majority of the time and I know it has been beyond difficult; it's taken a toll on both of us... on our relationship.
Every time I've asked, "what's wrong?" you have said it's work, your tired, or you worried about money ... Every time I've broke down in tears from the guilt I carry you've said, "don't worry hunny, I love you." ... Every time I've begged you to talk to me about things, you've said, "it's okay I'm just tired.
In every stage of our relationship, even when your mom and I were at odds, I've encouraged you to talk to your family and friends, to hang out with them; to maintain your relationships... all I asked was that you talk to me about where you're going and when you'll be home. Somehow, you interpreted that as meaning you had to ask for permission to do anything.
I've always said, "I'll never tell you that you can't buy car parts," and I never did, at most I've said, "maybe you should wait till your next cheque."
Somehow, you interpreted that as meaning you had to ask for permission to spend money.
But you never told me that was how you felt. You never gave me the opportunity to clarify... And now, now you "need to be alone for a while" but you still love me and it's not over... But it's not a break either...
I have never felt a pain like this. I have never felt so lost and broken...
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