Ugh..

So, my man and I have been TTC for a little while. It's gotten to the point that everyone we know has been asking when are we gunna start having kids. Lol. We just found out that his brother is have another baby & it's just so frustrating and upsetting. They didn't even want another kid. Dont get me wrong I'm happy for them, but the fact that we have been trying and nothing.  On top of that all I have been light bleeding for 3 weeks now. I've considered it my period because there was a few days I passed some very small clots and a day where I passed a fairly large one. I tend to be irregular but bleeding this long is not normal for me & I just recently started experience hot flashes. Agh.. All so frustrating lol