Judgmental people!

So me and my SO have been together since 08' we have a 2 year old daughter and a son on the way. The kids we have together are the only children we have. He's almost 29 and im 28.

I get so fuckin tired of people judging us because we are not married! And to those who like to give their opinion on people who are in situations like or similar to mind let me say you have no idea of the reasons why we aren't married nor do you have a heaven or hell to put us in so mind your damn business!

He first proposed February 2012 and we set a date for October 2012. I got off BC a couple days after he proposed because my doctor at the time told me it could take a while for us to conceive because i had been on depo for almost 5 years, and at 25 we felt the next year we would definitely love to be pregnant with our first child. Well i turned up pregnant a month after getting off depo.🙃

I did not want to be pregnant on my wedding day (no shade to those who have or going to). So we put it off for the next October 2014. We we were planning to just go to the court house and do a small reception and just go on a really nice honey moon.

But the month before my SO got into a really bad car accident, put him out of work for over 3 months and financially we felt it was best to stay afloat with the bills and to put it off again.

He ended up getting fired, but then ended up landing a great opportunity to go over the road driving trucks march 2015. He only came home for a weekend every three months. The weekend he came home for Christmas i conceived and im now 31 weeks....

Long story i know. I say all of that because we are constantly getting harassed by family, friends even strangers as to why we haven't tied the not. We both have a desire to but life happened and through all the struggle we still have so much love for each other.

I just wanted to vent and little because im very pregnant and the both of us are very tired of defending my relationship...thanks for reading this....